Talking To Your Teenage Son About His Cheating Ways

Talking To Your Teenage Son About His Cheating Ways

Every parent wants to raise their son to be a mature, responsible young man.  Men who are considerate and loyal.  For the most part, of our sons will end up that way, eventually in time.  However, in the meantime, they will make a lot of mistakes.  One of those mistakes likely involves breaking a few hearts along the way.

A large number of teenage boys “play the field” behind the backs of their devoted girlfriends.  As much as you don’t want to know or admit it, your own son may be among them.  But, what to do if and when you learn this important, yet heartbreaking piece of information?  If you discover that your son is a player per say, there are a few ways you can go about handling the situation.  A few of these ways are highlighted below for your convenience.

One approach is to just stay out of the situation completely.  Since all teenage relationships are basically learning experiences, you should allow them to learn.  There are a number of benefits to giving him the freedom to make his own mistakes.  If you believe this way of thinking, you may just want to ignore the situation.  With that said, if you suspect that your son might be jeopardizing his own health and safety or the health and safety of others by cheating, you may want to deal with the problem head-on.

Putting things into perspective for your son is another approach that you can and may want to take.  What you can do is appeal to your son’s own sense of decency.  Ask him to imagine how he would feel if someone broke his heart and trust in that same way.  As a parent, you may be surprised just how effective this approach is.  Many times, all it takes is a gentle and respectable reminder that they are not the only people in the world who have feelings and experience hurt and pain.

Discuss the consequences with your son.  The consequences of cheating may seem like common sense to us, but to a teenager who lives in the moment, these ideas are fleeting, at best.  Your son may not even have considered the idea of losing the friendship of a girl he cares about, developing a reputation that may impact and prevent future relationships, and so forth.

If you are worried about seeming over protective or appearing as the overbearing parent, you may want to take the “cool” approach to the situation.  Most teenage boys are fueled by the approval of their peers.  This means that looking “cool” to their friends is very important.  You can and should try to convince your son that he doesn’t need multiple girlfriends to fit in or just because everyone else thinks that it is cool to cheat.

By implementing a few of the above mentioned steps, you may be able to help your cheating teenage son change his ways.  However, even if you are completely unsuccessful in getting your son to stop his cheating, the important message is still fresh in his mind.  It is likely that he will, one day, meet that special someone who leaves him with the urge to stay faithful.  Until then, it is your job, as the parent, to support him as best you can even while voicing your displeasures.

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Online Relationships: Are They Really Cheating?

Online Relationships:  Are They Really Cheating?

Does your husband, wife, boyfriend, or girlfriend spend way too much time on the computer?  If they do and if you do not know what they are doing, you may be wondering if your significant other is having an online relationship.  Unfortunately, online relationships are often viewed differently, but that doesn’t mean that they can’t be considered cheating.

When it comes to relationships that develop online, there are typically two sides to the story.  The first side is that of the cheater or the individual carrying on the affair.  If you ever catch your significant other having an online relationship, they may claim that it isn’t really cheating.  This is because sometimes a physical meeting never takes place.  So, essentially, your partner has never kissed or had physical sex with the person at the other end of the computer.

The second side of the story, where online relationships are concerned, is the side of the husband, wife, boyfriend, or girlfriend who catches their partner acting inappropriately online.  For starters, it is important to know that many individuals nowadays don’t just talk online.  There are social networking websites, dating websites, and other similar websites that make it easier for internet users to meet up with each other.  Just because you are told that a physical meeting did not occur, it does not mean that you are getting the truth.  In fact, a meeting may have been planned right around the corner.

In keeping with viewing emotional affairs from the viewpoint of those who are being “cheated,” on, it is important to examine the harm caused.  Phone sex is a popular activity for couples in long distance relationships.  This may be occurring or it may be done online.  Despite the fact that physical contact has still not been made, inappropriate actions are still being performed.  Plus, even if sexy or seductive emails are the only thing exchanged, it can still hurt.  For many men and women, emotional affairs can be just as painful and as heart breaking.

So, do you suspect that your husband, wife, boyfriend, or girlfriend is having an inappropriate relationship online.  If you do, there are a number of steps that you can take to get answers.  For starters, try to enter the computer room.  If it is locked, there is a good sign that something inappropriate is going on.  Next, when you enter the room, place all of your focus on the computer screen.  Does your partner quickly change what is appearing on the screen?  Next, approach them, as if you intend to give them a hug or a kiss.  Towards the bottom of the screen should be a task bar.  This bar will give you information on programs that are open, including pornographic websites, video players, and so forth.

If you suspect that your partner is having inappropriate relationships online, it is a good idea to first think about your actions.  Unfortunately, many men and women are so surprised when they do catch what is happening that they don’t know how to act.  Be prepared.  Do you want to limit computer use, get rid of the computer altogether, take a break, or completely cut ties?  There are a number of benefits to having a set plan in place before you confront your cheating spouse.

Remember that online relationships can often develop into more than just a few flirty emails here and there.

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How Cheaters Use the Internet to Seek New Romance

How Cheaters Use the Internet to Seek New Romance

Are you in a relationship?  If you are, cheating may be a concern of yours.  After all, cheating is an issue that many of us have become alto familiar with.  You may have been cheated on in the past, you may have known someone else who has been, or you may have learned all about cheating from the television and movies.

If you suspect that your partner is cheating on you, they may be using the internet to do so.   Why?  Because the internet has made it very easy for cheaters to seek new romance.  Not only is the internet making online affairs easy and convenient, but many cheaters think the internet makes it harder to get caught.  Unfortunately for them and luckily for you, the computer often tells the tale.

As for how men and women use the internet to seek new romance online, there are a number of different approaches taken.  One of those is social networking websites.  Now, it is important to know that social networking sites, like MySpace, have increased in popularity over the past few years.  Just because your partner uses a social networking website, it does not mean that they are cheating on you.  They may truly just be interested in connecting with old friends.  Be cautious, however, of a profile that you cannot see or access or the appearance of old girlfriends.

Dating websites are also how many cheaters use the internet to seek new romance online.  Unfortunately, dating websites are more risky than social networking websites.  If your husband, wife, girlfriend, or boyfriend uses an online dating site, they may have the intention of actually meeting the person at the other end of the computer.  This is when an affair stops becoming just an emotional affair and often starts becoming a physical affair.  If you ever find that your partner is using an online dating website, be aware because there is a good chance that they are cheating on you or intend to start soon.

As it was previously stated, the internet does make it easier for cheaters to start romances online, but it is also relatively easy to catch a cheater online.  To get started, check your computer’s internet history.  To do so, open up a new internet explorer window.  Along the top of the page, you will see the history icon.  This icon is in the shape of a clock with a green arrow.  Clicking on this will tell you all of the websites visited in the past few days.  Be suspicious of no information, as it may mean that the history was purposely cleared.

A keylogger program, also occasionally referred to as a keyword tracker, can also be installed on your computer.  These programs work to capture each word that is typed on your computer.  If you think that your partner is communicating with their sex partner or partners online through email or in chat room sessions, you may be able to see exactly what it is they are saying.  These types of programs can be expensive, but they can also provide you with the proof that you need.

You can also always take the direct approach.  If your partner is using the computer and acting secretive, demand to see what they are looking at.  Walk over to the computer immediately, request that they get up and you take their seat.  View the computer’s internet history immediately.  This allows you to see what they have been looking at online before giving a computer savvy cheater time to cover their tracks.

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Got a Cheating Partner? How and Why You Should Check Phone Records

Got a Cheating Partner?  How and Why You Should Check Phone Records

Do you suspect that your spouse is cheating on you?  If you do, you may be looking for proof.  One of the most common ways that this proof is obtained is by spying.  Unfortunately, you may be uncomfortable doing so or you may not have the financial resources needed to hire a private investigator.  If that is the case, there is another way that you can try to catch a cheating spouse.  You can do so with their cell phone.

Many cheating spouses use their cell phones as an easy means of communication.  In fact, did you know that many will use their cell phones as opposed to the family phone?  Many do so because there is less of a chance that you or someone else, like one of your children, will pickup the phone instead.  Since cell phones are a common means of communication for cheating spouses, you should use this to your advantage.

What it is important to know about cell phones is that they keep very accurate records.  All cell phones, even those that are older, keep a call log.  Often times, the calls that are made, the calls that are received, and the calls that are missed are recorded.  You should be provided with a date and a time.  If you can get a hold of your partner’s cell phone, do it.  Even if you have to grab the phone in the middle of the night and check its history in the bathroom, do so.

When checking your partner’s cell phone for suspicious activity, you will want to be on the lookout for names or telephone numbers that you do not recognize.  Also, look for constant calls to or from a certain number.  If your partner is calling one number multiple times a day or everyday, they may be cheating on you.  In addition to checking the call log, also examine picture messages and text messages.  These are easier to delete, but many cheaters do not take the simple step needed to do so because they don’t believe that they will get caught.

In addition to the cell phone itself, you can also use cell phone bills as method to catch a cheater.  This works best if you are married to your partner or if you live with them, as it should be easy for you to gain access to their cell phone.  Does your partner’s cell phone bill list the phone numbers that are called or the phone numbers that text messages were sent to?  If it does, be on the lookout for unknown numbers or repeated communication.

Although not all cell phone bills itemize information, like on the phone calls received or placed, many companies do give you the option of doing so.  If you are the one who is responsible for paying the cell phone bill or if you are married, you may be able to change the format of your partner’s cell phone bill.  A quick call or email to the cell phone company should be enough to catch your cheating partner the next time that the phone bill arrives.

The above mentioned steps are just a few of the many easy ways that you can use your partner’s cell phone and cell phone bill to see if they are cheating on you.  If you see that your partner hangs up the phone whenever you enter the room or if they lower their voice, there is a good chance that they are hiding something from you.

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Five Easy Ways to Catch a Cheating Spouse

Five Easy Ways to Catch a Cheating Spouse

Do you suspect that your spouse is cheating on you?  If you do, you may want to end your relationship.  This feeling is completely natural; however, before you decide to ask for a divorce, it is important to make sure that your spouse really is cheating on you.  The good news is that doing so is a lot easier than many originally think.  In fact, five easy ways that you can go about catching a cheating spouse are highlighted below.

1 – Follow Them

Following a cheating spouse is one of the easiest ways to catch them in the act.  What you will want to do is choose your time wisely.  For example, choose to follow your husband or wife when they say they are going out with friends or working late.

If you do decide to follow your husband or wife, be careful when doing so.  The last thing that you want is to get caught.  If you do, you may be the one who is, in turn, put in the hot seat.  Also, be sure to not put yourself in any potentially dangerous situations.

2 – Hire a Private Investigator

Hiring a private investigator is a nice and easy way to catch a cheating spouse.  For many men and women, it is also a much safer approach.  What you will need to do is provide an investigator with information about your spouse, such as pictures, their description, where they work, as well as their daily schedule.  Your private investigator should follow your husband or wife to get the proof that you need.

The only downside to using the services of a private investigator to catch a cheating husband or wife is that you must pay for those services.  However, many find the costs well worth it.  If you are looking to get divorced, the pictures or video that your private investigator gets may prove to be very valuable to you.

3 – Check Their Cell Phones

Since many cheating husbands and wives do not want to get caught, many do not use their home phones, instead they rely on the use of a cell phone.  If your husband or wife has a cell phone, try to get a hold of it.  Most cell phones keep accurate records, including information on text messages received, pictures received, phone calls received, and phone calls dialed. You do see anything suspicious?

In addition to checking the cell phone itself, consider looking at the bill.  Did you know that some cell phone companies itemize the phone numbers and messages that are received?  In fact, you may have the option to do so.  If you are married, you may be able to change the format of your cell phone bill to include this important and revealing information.

4 – The Internet

When looking to use the internet to catch a cheating spouse, you have a number of different options.  For starters, you can use it as a research tool.  You can research additional ways to catch a cheating spouse, learn common signs that cheaters show, mistakes that they make, and so forth.  You can also use the internet to help you find a private investigator.

The internet can also be used to catch your cheating spouse in action.  In fact, the internet makes it easier for people to cheat; therefore, many choose to do so online.  Examine the history of your computer.  Is it filled with pornographic websites, dating websites, or social networking websites?  In fact, has the history to your computer recently been cleared?

5 – Keep Your Eyes and Ears Open

Finally, it is important to keep your eyes and ears open.  In fact, doing so is one of the easiest ways to find a cheating spouse.  If your husband or wife is brave or daring, they may flaunt their affair right in front of you.  Also, it is important to remember that people talk.  Do you hear your friends or family members talking about your cheating partner?  If so, it might be time to start listening.

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Confronting a Cheating Spouse: When Caution Is Important

Confronting a Cheating Spouse:  When Caution Is Important

Have you just recently learned that your spouse is or has been cheating on you?  If you have, you may want to confront them.  In all honesty, if you want to go ahead and confront your cheating spouse then go ahead and do so.  With that being said, you may want to use caution.  There are times when confronting a cheating spouse can turn dangerous.

If you decide to confront your cheating spouse alone, you may want to be extra careful.  In fact, you may event want to hold off on the confrontation.  Is your spouse known for his or her temper?  If so, being alone may not be the best way to accuse your spouse of cheating on you or showing them the proof that you have.  This is particularly true if you intend to end your relationship or ask for a divorce.  If possible, have a trusted friend, family member, or police officer with you at your home.

As previously stated, you may not want to be alone when confronting a cheating spouse.  With that said, there is someone who you do not want to have with you.  That it one of your children.  Never confront a cheating spouse or even accuse them of cheating in front of your children.  It doesn’t matter if your children are newborns or teenagers.  Teens know about cheating and you do not want drag them into your mess of a marriage.  Newborns will have no clue as to what you are talking about, but the raised voices may be scary and overwhelming.

If your spouse is abusive, either verbally abusive or physically abusive, use your best judgment.  When your spouse is abusive, either verbally or physically, you will want to proceed with extreme caution.  If you intend to end your marriage due to cheating, it may be best to do so all at once.  Have a trusted friend, relative, or the police on standby.  If your spouse starts to get violent or upset with you for brining up their cheating, take action immediately.  Call for help or get out of your house and do not return until they are gone or you have the police with you.  Never put yourself in harms way when confronting a cheating spouse.

Another situation where you want to be cautious when calling out a cheating spouse is if you aren’t ready to walk out the door.  Yes, you have every right to be in your home and your spouse may be the one who has to or should leave, but that doesn’t mean the situation will go that way.  If your spouse refuses to leave your home, even just for a temporary break, are you prepared to?  What about your children, if you are a parent?  If your main goal is to end your relationship with your cheating spouse, be sure to have a set plan in place for you and your family.

Finally, reconsider confronting a cheating spouse if you do not have any proof.  Have you seen your spouse on a date with another?  Have you seen the phone or credit card bills with suspicious or out of the ordinary entries?  If you haven’t, it may be best to wait until you have proof.  Your spouse may completely deny having an affair.  As a worse case scenario, they may not even be cheating on you!

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Common Mistakes Cheaters Make In Relationships

Common Mistakes Cheaters Make In Relationships

Do you suspect that your spouse or your romantic partner is cheating on you?  If you do, you may be looking for ways to catch him or her in action.  Fortunately for you, this may be easier to do than you originally thought.  Why?  Because many cheaters make simple, yet costly mistakes in their relationships.

As stated above, many cheaters make mistakes.  These mistakes can actually make it much easier for you to catch your cheating spouse or romantic partner.  A few of the common mistakes that cheaters, both men and women, make are outlined below.

Mistake # 1 – Believing They Won’t Get Caught

The biggest mistake that cheaters make is believing that they won’t get caught.  This often leads cheaters to become bolder, braver, as well as display reckless behavior.  Yes, it is true that some men and women are able to carry on affairs for years without their spouses or romantic partners knowing, but this is actually quite rare.  Due to the other mistakes that are listed below, most cheaters end up getting caught at one time or another.

Mistake # 2 – Believing Their Partner Will Forgive Them

If you are unfortunate enough to learn that your spouse or romantic partner is cheating on you, you may be surprised with their actions.  Many cheaters, regardless of gender, appear shocked when their significant other is upset.  This is because many cheaters expect their partners to automatically forgive them, like by writing off the cheating as a simple mistake.

Mistake # 3 – Believing They Did or Are Doing Nothing Wrong

As previously stated, many cheaters expect not to get caught and those who do get caught expect to be forgiven right away.  These same individuals likely believe that they aren’t doing anything wrong.  The good news for you though is that men and women who assume they aren’t doing anything wrong by cheating, don’t always cover their tracks.  This means that it should be easier for you to catch a cheating spouse or romantic partner and take the appropriate action.

Mistake # 4 – Changing Their Appearance

When men and women have affairs, they often feel revived.  This often results in them wanting to take better care of themselves and improve their physical appearance.  Of course, it is important to remember that there may be a good reason for your significant other to get a makeover or change their wardrobe, but it is often a sign of cheating.  In fact, it is such a common and well-known sign that you have to wonder what your significant other is thinking when openly making these changes.

Mistake # 5 – Making Themselves Unavailable

When a husband, wife, boyfriend, or girlfriend suspects that their partner is cheating on them, they often try and contact their significant other whey they don’t know where they are.  This contact is often made by phone.  One mistake that cheaters make is not picking up the phone.  Yes, they are probably “busy,” but cheaters who answer the phone and come up with a plausible excuse for not being home or being out of reach, are likely to get away with cheating longer.

Mistake # 6 – Talking Too Much or Flaunting Affair

In keeping with the mistake of believing that they will get away with it, many cheaters make the mistake of talking about their affair or getting braver.  This may involve going out in public, as opposed to meeting in secret.  What many cheaters do not realize is that people talk, even the people who they believe they can trust and those closest to them.  In fact, this is how many people become aware of a cheating spouse or romantic partner; they hear the rumors that are flying.

The above mentioned mistakes are just a few of the many, but common mistakes that cheaters make.  Be on the lookout for a few of these mistakes, as they may be a good sign that you significant other is cheating on you.

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Behavior Changes that May Signal a Cheating Spouse

Behavior Changes that May Signal a Cheating Spouse

Do you think that your spouse is having an affair?  Many times, it can be very difficult to tell if your spouse is cheating on you.  Fortunately, many cheating spouses eventually show signs of being unfaithful, most of which are associated with their behavior. Outlined below are some signs that your spouse might be cheating on you.

Your spouse joins a gym.  This is a major sign when it is something that they never had any interest in doing so before.  If you never had a problem with your spouse’s weight before, why would you now?  This could be a sign that they are trying to impress someone besides you.

Your spouse does not have time to sit down and talk anymore.  Did and your spouse talk about their day?  If you never seem to have the deep or intense conversations that you once had, there may be a major problem.  Cheating spouses often try to distance themselves from their relationships at home.  This is a sign that your spouse may be cheating on you.

Your spouse may act differently during sex and want to try new things out in the bedroom.  If your spouse suddenly wants to try new things in the bedroom or if you just notice that the sex is different, they may be cheating.  In fact, you may be left wondering where they learned that from.

In keeping with sex, your spouse may want to have it less.  A decrease in sex frequency is a sign that your spouse may be cheating on you.  As for why sex occurs less when cheating is involved, they feel guilty about what they are doing or they may be getting enough sex already.

They may also get angry easier and more often.  Your spouse may also be touchy around you.  This may lead to more arguments and disagreements in your relationship. Things you do may annoy your husband or wife.  They may actually go as far as to leave the room.   Be sure to observe the changes in behavior that your spouse has towards other members of your family as well.

They want to buy a whole new wardrobe, in a way, reinventing themselves.  This works in conjunction with joining a gym to lose weight.  A huge sign of cheating is when a new wardrobe is purchased and when more skin is being shown.

Unusual behavior when your spouse is on the phone is another sign of cheating.  When they are talking on the phone near you, do they try to lower their voce or even leave the room?  Hanging up a phone quickly is another signal to watch for.  Be cautious of increased cell phone use, as many cheaters prefer to use their own personal phones, as opposed to family phones.

In addition to examining the behavior of your husband or wife, the behavior of your friends should also be examined.  The friends you share together may start acting differently towards you.  This is often because your shared friends might know more than you do.  Even if a friend does not outright tell you that your husband or wife is cheating, they may intentionally or unintentionally show you the signs.

These above mentioned signs may be an indicator that your spouse is cheating on you, but there may also be reasonable causes for these behavior changes.  For example, your spouse might want to look great for you and you alone, or they also may simply want to improve their health.

Since there are no guarantees that cheating could be going on, even with the above mentioned signs present, additional steps should be taken.  These steps can and should include monitoring cell phone calls, viewing the cell phone bill, or hiring a private investigator.  Never confront your husband or wife without the proper proof.  Be sure to get solid evidence of cheating, otherwise you could be creating a whole new problem in your relationship.

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10 Signs of a Cheating Spouse

10 Signs of a Cheating Spouse

Do you suspect that your husband or wife is cheating on you?  If you think that your spouse is cheating, you may be looking for confirmation.  Before you take steps to start spying on your spouse or before you decide to hire the services of a costly private investigator, read the signs below to see if your spouse may truly be cheating on you.

1 – A Change in Physical Appearance

Men and women who cheat often want to impress or entice the individual they are having inappropriate relations with.  When doing so, they often change or improve their appearance.  If your spouse starts paying more attention to their weight or buys new clothes, they may be having an affair.

2 – Distance or Lack of Communication

Until you recently started noticing a problem, how was your communication with your spouse?  If your spouse has recently stopped talking to you or distanced themselves from you at home, there is a good chance that they may be cheating on you.  This is because they may be afraid of making a mistake and talking about their affair or they may already be discussing their problems with someone else.

3 – They Constantly Work Late

Depending on your spouse and his or her career, they really may have to work late.  With that said, be on the lookout for changes and use your best judgment.  Has your husband or wife all of a sudden started working late?  In terms of using your best judgment, know what careers often call for late nights, such as lawyers, doctors, and so forth.

4 – They Spend Too Much Time with Friends

Spending time with friends does not always signal a cheater.  In fact, healthy relationships also depend on healthy outside friendships. With that said, be sure to use your best judgment.  Look for the appearance of new friends or an increased amount of time.  Has your husband or wife gone from spending one night a week with friends to three or more?

5 – You Don’t Know Where They Are

When you are married, there is never really any reason why you shouldn’t know where your spouse is, especially late at night or for long periods of time.  If you do not know, chances are your spouse is cheating.  When they arrive home, they better have a good reason for being late or not letting you know where they were.

6 – You Hear Rumors

Many men and women are not careful about cheating. This often involves them telling someone or someone seeing them out on a date.  In these types of situations, people often talk.  Listen to what you hear.  If people are telling you that your spouse is cheating, it might be time to start listening.

7 – No Sex

Has your relationship recently become sex-free or has the sex that you do have decreased in intensity and in frequency.  If so, there is a good chance that your spouse is cheating on you.  Men and women who get sex elsewhere don’t always need to have it again when they return home.

8 – You Are Accused of Cheating

In today’s society, cheating is a major concern.  If your spouse accuses you of cheating, have you been displaying behavior that may lead them to that conclusion?  If you haven’t, there is a good chance that they are accusing you of cheating to make themselves feel less guilty.

9 – Hearing the Phrase “We are Just Friends”

The “just friends,” phrase is a big sign of a cheater.  As with all other friendships, it is important to use your best judgment.  If the friend of the opposite sex and are they are a newly acquired friend?  If so, something may be up.

10 – A Bad Feeling

Bad feelings are not something that should be easily dismissed.  If you have reason to believe that your husband or wife is cheating, they may be.  If you do not want to be in a relationship with a cheater, it is important for you to follow your heart. Take additional steps to see if they are truly cheating.  These steps may involve hiring a private investigator or spying.

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5 Things You Can Do When Your Teen Daughter Catches Her Boyfriend Cheating

5 Things You Can Do When Your Teen Daughter Catches Her Boyfriend Cheating

As parents, we never want to see our children suffer, particularly at the hands of a cheating boyfriend. But, what should you do if your teenage daughter finds out that her boyfriend is or has been cheating on her?

During the teen years, everything that goes happens or goes wrong seems like it is the end of the world, so expect some overreaction from your teen.  As much as we want to fix everything for them, healing a broken heart is a task that can be hard to accomplish.  With that said there are a few ways, five ways to be exact, that you can help your daughter overcome without being too intrusive.

1 - Be a Source of Comfort

What you will want to do is be a shoulder for her to cry on.  Also, have an ear ready to listen. Your daughter may or may not want to open up to you about her feelings and experiences right away, but be ready for when she is.  It is also important to never underestimate the power of a simple hug, as just a hug from mom or dad can help to improve so much.

2 – Give Your Daughter Space and Time

What it is important to remember about teenage relationships is that many teens think they are serious, even if the relationship only lasted a few days.  Many teens believe that their boyfriends are “the one.”  No matter how short or long your daughter’s relationship was, do not expect her to get over him overnight.  Also, do not try to over schedule what you believe to be fun and exciting family time.  Your daughter will cope at her own pace.  She may just need to be alone for a while to process her thoughts and feelings.

3 – Let Your Daughter Know You Understand

Validation is important for many teens who experience cheating or the end of a relationship.  Letting your daughter know that you understand what she is going through and how much it hurts is important for her to hear.  Remind your daughter that although you understand her hurt and pain, it will improve overtime.  Just be cautious with your approach, as you will not want to go overboard.  Now may not be the time to toss out the common “there is other fish in the sea,” line.

4 – Avoid Making Comparisons

Since cheating is becoming somewhat of a common occurrence, there is a chance that you may have experienced the same problem and emotions.  Even if you have, it is important to not compare her situation to yours.  Your daughter’s situation should be treated with uniqueness.  Plus, a comparison may make your daughter feel as if you are trying to diminish her pain or draw attention away from her needs.

5 – Don’t Let Her Shut Down Completely

As previously stated, it is important to give your daughter the space and time that she needs to cope with a cheating boyfriend or the end of her relationship, but don’t allow her to shut out the whole world.  Avoiding school and peers that know, may be a goal of hers, but do not allow your daughter’s fear or embarrassment have a negative impact on her life.  Instead, encourage her to spend time with her friends, namely those who love and support her and will provide encouragement, regardless of the situation.

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5 Signs of a Cheating Husband

5 Signs of a Cheating Husband

Spouses having affairs seems to be a common occurrence in today’s society.  In fact, they seem as if they are increasing in popularity.  Although it is often difficult to associate good news with a cheating husband, there is good news.  That good news is that it relatively easy for you to catch your cheating husband, especially when you know what signs to look for.

As previously stated, there are signs that you can look for to help you determine if your spouse is cheating on you.  With that being said, some of these signs are so small that they often go unnoticed.  To help provide you with assistance, some signs that you will want to look for to see if your husband is cheating on you are highlighted below.

1 – Changed Appearance

If your husband has changed his appearance dramatically in one way or another, it can be a sign of cheating.  For example, he could change the style of clothing that he wears, either shave or decide to grow a beard, or start wearing cologne when he never had before.  Another major sign to look for, in terms of changed appearance, is if your husband takes extra steps to ensure that he looks his best for work or when going out with friends.

2 – Unusual Schedule Changes

If your husband has had some uncommon and unusual changes in his schedule, this could be a sign that he is cheating.  For example, does your husband normally not work overtime or stay late?  If he has started doing so all of a sudden, there is a good chance that cheating may be to blame.  What about common or unexpected business trips?

In addition to changes with a work schedule, your husband’s friendships should also be closely examined.  When your husband spends time with his friends is he gone longer than usual?  Has a new friend or family member recently appeared in the picture?

3 – A Loss of Interest in Family

One of the biggest signs of a cheating husband is the loss of internet in family.  Are you and your husband parents?  If so, has your husband completely lost interest in doing things with you or your children?  Your husband may be cheating if he would much rather spend time alone or with friends than with you or your family.

4 – Displaying Guilt

If your husband really is having an affair, he is likely to be dealing with a large amount of guilt. This guilt can typically work two ways.  He could show you much more attention and give you more affection then he normally does.  On the other hand, he can display anger and frustration with you.  Anger often tends to give cheating husbands a reason not to feel so guilty.

 5 – Unusual Phone Use

Another good sign that your husband may be cheating on you is if he acts weird when using the phone.  Does your husband get quiet when you enter the room or does he hang-up the phone?  Is his cell phone being used to talk to “friends,” as opposed to your family phone?  If so, try to get hold of your husband’s cell phone to examine the call log or else checkout the phone bill.  This should be done because your husband may be cheating on you.

The above mentioned signs are just a few of the many signs that your husband may be a cheater.  With that said, the above mentioned signs are a few of the easiest to catch.  As difficult as it can be for you to learn that your husband is cheating on you, it is important to think about the long-term situation at hand.  Knowing is better than speculating.  In fact, your husband and his cheating ways can put your health at risk with the transmission of sex related diseases.  Also, if you are a parent, you have your children’s safety and wellbeing to take into consideration.

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5 Signs of a Cheating Girlfriend

5 Signs of a Cheating Girlfriend

Are you a teenage boy who is in a serious relationship?  If you are do you believe that your girlfriend is cheating on you?  If you do, you may want to proof.  After all, the last thing that you want to do is be associated with a girl who likes to cheat and possibly sleep around.  For that reason, once suspicion has arose, many boyfriends want to know if their girlfriends are really cheating on them.

One of the best ways to tell if your girlfriend is cheating on you is to keep your eyes and ears open at all times.  Did you know that many of the women or even girls who cheat make many mistakes along the way?  These mistakes are signs that you should be able to pick up on, but you must know what to look for.  To help get you started, five signs that your girlfriend may be cheating on you are outlined below.

1 – If Your Girlfriend Has Changed Her Appearance

Has your girlfriend recently changed her appearance?  Did she start wearing contacts instead of glasses?  Has she started showing more skin at school?  If so, she may be cheating on you or she may want to start cheating on you soon.  This is because changes in appearance are often made to impress someone.  If that person is not you, it will likely be another boy.

2 – If Your Girlfriend Stops Hanging Out With You

In the past, did you and your girlfriend spend a lot of time together?  Did you enjoy hanging out with her friends, going to the movies, or attending parties together?  Are those days gone?  If so, your relationship may be over and your girlfriend may be cheating on you.

It is also important to examine the friends of your girlfriend.  Do they act different towards you?  Do you still hangout with them as a group, like as much as before?  If not, your girlfriend is likely trying to keep her new romantic interest a secret.  When teenage girls try to juggle multiple relationships, they often confide in their friends.  Keeping you away from those friends may be a defense mechanism.

3 – A Rude Attitude

Unfortunately, many teenagers today are a lot ruder than they were in the past.  Since you are a teen yourself, you may not want to hear this, but it is true.  For that reason, did you know that some girls will go as far as to start a new relationship without even breaking up with their boyfriend, like you?  Some will do so just to be mean.  If your girlfriend flaunts her new relationship or if she is rude to you, it is time for you to move on.

4 – The Rumors Fly

At the high school level, you will hear a lot of gossip.  For many teenagers, gossip is a fun way to pass the time at school.  This gossip may be about you or your girlfriend.  As previously stated, your girlfriend may confide in her friends about her cheating.  What helps you is that girls like to talk and gossip the most.  If your girlfriend is cheating on you, chances are you will hear the rumors at school.  If you do hear these rumors, it might be time for you to start listening to them.

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5 Signs of a Cheating Boyfriend

5 Signs of a Cheating Boyfriend

Are you a teenager who is in a serious relationship?  If you are, there may come a point in time when you think that your boyfriend is cheating on you.  As often as you may hear an adult say “you are young, you will find love again,” you may still want to have concrete proof that your boyfriend is cheating on you.  After all, if love is what you feel, you may be unsure about ending the relationship.

Although getting concrete proof that shows that your boyfriend is cheating on you can be difficult to do, there are still a number of signs that you will want to look for.  These signs, five of which are outlined below, can make it easier for you to determine whether or not your teenage boyfriend is cheating on you.

1 – He Stops Hanging Out With You

If your boyfriend stops hanging out with you or if he stops inviting you to parties or social outings with friends, there is a good chance that he is cheating on you.  As for why you may no longer be invited to social events with him, he is likely worried that his friends will talk.  Because, chances are his close friends already know that he is cheating on you.  In fact, do his friends treat you any differently?

2 – He Has Changed His Appearance

Has your boyfriend starting changing his appearance?  Has he started taking better care of himself?  At the high school level, a big change in appearance should include hairstyles or clothes.  Chances are if your boyfriend has undergone a sudden appearance change, there is someone who he is trying to impress.  Unfortunately, you may not be that someone.

3 – A Rude Attitude

Since many cheaters feel guilty about their actions, they often try to lessen that guilt.  One of the many ways that a boyfriend does this is by being rude to you.  He may accuse you of cheating on him or he may regularly find even the smallest reasons for picking an argument.  This is because some cheaters justify their behavior by claiming that their girlfriends deserved to be cheated on.

4 – You Can’t Get In Touch With Him

Many boyfriends and girlfriends communicate through cell phone calls, text messages, and emails.  If this is how you and your boyfriend communicated in the past, have you suddenly noticed a change?  If you find it harder to get hold of your boyfriend, he might be cheating on you.  After all, why would he always answer your phone calls, text messages, or emails before, but not now?

5 – You Are Hearing Rumors

If one thing is for sure it is that high school students like to gossip. As previously stated, your boyfriends’ friends likely already know that he is cheating on you.  They may talk to their other friends or their own girlfriends.  This is likely to start rumors.  Although not all rumors you hear at school are true, you may want to listen carefully.

The above mentioned signs are just a few of the many that your boyfriend may be cheating on you.  If you do find out that your boyfriend is cheating on you, it may be a wise idea to break off the relationship.  If you are having sex with your boyfriend, his cheating ways could put you at risk for developing harmful and painful sexually transmitted diseases.

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4 Signs of a Cheating Wife

4 Signs of a Cheating Wife

Do you suspect that your wife is cheating on you?   If you do, you are definitely not alone.  Infidelity is actually quite common these days. You can see it all over television and almost everyone has known someone who has been cheated on, in one way or another.

If you are a husband who thinks that your wife is cheating on you, there are a number of signs that you will want to be on the lookout for.   The following are four signs that could very well confirm your suspicions.

1 – A Change in Appearance

If your wife has gone through a change in appearance, it could be a sign that she is cheating on you.  What you will want to look for is small, but significant changes in appearance.

For example, has she always worn glasses but has all of a sudden opted for contact lenses?  Has your wife recently started showing more skin?  Dressing provocatively is a common sign of cheating, especially if your wife typically dresses conservatively.  Switching perfumes or wearing it more often can be another sign of cheating.  This can be done to impress a new man or to cover up another man’s scent.

2 – A Change in Affection

A change in the amount of affection that your wife gives you could be seen as a sign of having an affair.  For example, has your love life been happy and healthy in the past?  Was your relationship filled with fun, adventure, and great sex?  If so, has that changed?  If your wife no longer compliments you as she did before or does something as simple as pull away during a kiss, an affair may be going on.  Many cheating women try to avoid close contact with their husbands in fear of getting caught or letting their guilt show.

3 – Secrecy

A wife becoming more secretive can often point to an extramarital affair.  For example, does your wife spend too much time on the phone or the internet?  If so, what does she say when you ask her what she is doing?  If you receive a “nothing,” or a “not your business,” response, something may be going on.

In keeping with phone and internet use, does your wife automatically hang-up the phone whenever you walk into a room?  Does she shut off the computer or try to block your view of it?  If so, your wife’s secrecy may mean that she is trying to cover up an affair.

4 – Changes in Bills

One of the simplest ways to catch a cheating wife is to start paying your bills.  In most relationships, this is the woman’s responsibility, but make it yours.  Examine your wife’s cell phone bills.  Does it show what phone numbers are called or what numbers text messages and pictures are received from?  Also, closely examine credit card bills. Are there expenses listed for hotel rooms, vacations, restaurants, or anything else that you have no idea about?  If so, your wife may be cheating on you.

The above mentioned signs are just a few of the many that you will want to look for in a cheating wife.  If you think that your wife is cheating on you, just be sure to keep your eyes and ears open.  Unfortunately for the cheaters, they often make mistakes.  Many women get so comfortable, that they slip up at one time or another.  If you know what to look for, this is when you may be able to catch your wife cheating.

If you do find out that your wife is cheating on you, you may want to carefully approach the subject.  Never confront your wife in front of your children.  No matter how angry you are, do not get violent and try to keep your voice at a reasonable level.  As hard as it can be, calming approaching the situation can better allow you and your wife to have an honest discussion.  This where you can decide what will happen you to and your relationship next.

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